1.The Control Freak
For this woman, her ideal relationship is less about compatibility and compromise and more about having someone do everything she says. The only way she can be happy is if she has complete control over circumstances which ruins all opportunity for spontaneity, romantic surprises, and, you know, a man to love out of his own free will.
She’s the girl that wants all eyes on her and when they’re not it becomes a problem. Remember Regine from Living Single? She’s the same as her. Trying to build a relationship with a Narcissist is the same as trying to live in a sandcastle. It’ll take a lot of understanding and therapy sessions to develop a concrete relationship with her.
3.The Passive-Aggressive One
The passive-aggressive woman spells danger. She is unable to tell you how she feels, so she acts out her feelings, which will surely confuse you. When she’s passive, it may seem alluring, but that passivity will eventually turn back into aggressive when she feels she isn’t getting what she wants.
She comes across as if she has a lot going on, yet you can’t really pinpoint what or who she really is. It’s more likely that she has an identity issue or is too wrapped up in the lives of celebrities that she’s lost herself along the way.
5.The Comparative One
She’s the one that compares you to either her terrible ex or her father that you will never live up to. It’ll be very hard to feel appreciated by her because whatever you do will not measure up to her standards. She can’t see you for who you are, she only sees how things can be better or how wrong they are.
Regardless of the situations she’ll find something to complain about. If you’re late, if you’re wearing blue instead of red, if it’s raining outside or sunny she will find fault in it all. It’ll be like walking on eggshells around her.
7.The Emotionally Unavailable One
There is no way to build a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person.The emotionally unavailable person refuses to express themselves and are so evasive that it becomes exhausting trying to get through to them. They are good at charm, seduction and sexual appeal, but when the relationship gets deeper they will bail or sabotage it.
She’s a bit different from the narcissist. The attention-seeker is constantly on the lookout for attention and often does things to get attention. She may be loud in public or post pictures on Instagram and Facebook more times a day than anyone can keep up with. Her attention-seeking is a symptom, sometimes, of a lack of self-esteem or she believes she won’t get attention unless she demands it.
From the beginning, she’ll be trying to understand why you do what you do because she feels everything has a deeper meaning. The need to know why you said one word over another will be the crux of your conversations. One-word answers annoy her and that’ll tornado into a huge argument. It’ll be like chemistry class with this one.
10.The Mean One
Her lip stays poked out ready to go off on whoever. There is no explanation as to why she’s being mean or why she’s mad. There isn’t much to do here unless you want to set her off and have her unleash on you. There’s surely a way to get through to her, but only she knows that and she probably ain’t trying to reveal that.