In an era where romantic relationships are often defined by constant texting, calls, and social media presence, a relationship counselor, Counselor Apurepeya Ayamga, has cautioned against what he calls “emotional over-availability,” a behavior he says can quietly erode respect, attraction, and balance in relationships.
Speaking on the Love Affairs program on A1 Radio, Counselor Apurepeya explained that while love requires attention and presence, “being too available makes your partner stop valuing your time and your efforts.”
“Many people confuse love with constant access. But when you make yourself too available, you unknowingly teach your partner to expect you at every moment, and soon, they stop appreciating the effort you put into the relationship,” he said.
According to him, emotional balance is one of the most overlooked principles in modern relationships. He noted that both men and women often fall into the trap of overcompensating, replying instantly to every message, canceling personal plans, or sacrificing self-care just to please their partners.
Counselor Apurepeya explained that such habits create unhealthy emotional dependency and reduce attraction over time. “When you’re always there, your partner stops missing you. Mystery dies, excitement fades, and the relationship becomes routine,” he added.
He advised couples to maintain healthy boundaries and prioritize self-growth even while in love. He emphasized that space in a relationship is not a sign of neglect but a form of respect, for oneself and for one’s partner.
“Love grows stronger when both partners have room to breathe, to pursue their dreams, and to miss each other genuinely,” he said.
The relationship expert urged young couples to remember that love should be “a balance of giving and preserving,” adding that constant availability might feel romantic at first but often leads to emotional exhaustion and resentment over time.
Counselor Apurepeya concluded with a thought-provoking reminder: “If your presence is constant, it becomes noise. But if it’s measured, it becomes melody.”
As relationship dynamics continue to evolve in the digital age, experts like Counselor Apurepeya are calling for a return to self-awareness, reminding partners that love is not proven by constant presence, but by consistent respect, emotional maturity, and balance in relationships.
Love Affairs is an engaging and interactive relationship talk show on A1 Radio, dedicated to fostering meaningful conversations about love, relationships, and personal development. The program features expert advice, real-life stories, and listener engagement to help individuals and couples navigate the complexities of modern relationships. Love Affairs airs every Thursday from 8:30 p.m. to 10:00 p.m.
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