A heated discussion on A1 Radio’s Love Affairs program has brought renewed attention to the financial realities of marriage, with regular panelist George Awune cautioning that love alone is not enough to sustain a successful union.
Speaking on the Love Affairs program on A1 Radio, Awune pushed back against calls for societal pressure to compel people into marriage, insisting that financial preparedness remains a critical factor often overlooked.
“If you don’t have, go and look for, but don’t rush into marriage without preparation,” he stressed.
Mr. Awune highlighted the stark contrast between traditional and modern marriage systems, arguing that the communal support that once eased the burden of starting a family has largely disappeared.
“In the past, society supported newlyweds with food, goods, and encouragement. Today, the same people who come to congratulate you expect to be fed,” he said.
According to him, contemporary marriages come with significant financial expectations, from wedding ceremonies and dowries to social obligations like funerals and family gatherings.
“Everything comes at a cost. Whether it’s dowry, events, or even hosting guests, marriage today is expensive,” he added.
Mr. Awune maintained that financial stability should be a primary consideration before entering marriage. He questioned the logic of forcing individuals into lifelong commitments they are not equipped to handle.
“How do you push someone into a contract they don’t have the capacity to sustain?” he asked.
He noted that beyond basic needs like housing and daily upkeep, couples must also prepare for long-term responsibilities, including raising children and managing household expectations.
While emphasizing finances, Mr. Awune also pointed to the psychological demands of marriage. He explained that transitioning from single life to shared living requires emotional readiness and adaptability.
“You’ve never stayed with a partner before—you need to prepare your mind. Marriage is not just about love; it’s about adjustment,” he said.
Mr. Awune acknowledged that delaying marriage indefinitely may raise concerns but rejected the idea that it automatically signals irresponsibility. Instead, he argued that rushing into marriage without adequate preparation poses a greater risk.
“If you delay because you are not ready, that is better than forcing yourself and failing,” he explained.
However, he cautioned against excessive delay, suggesting that waiting until much later in life, particularly beyond 40, may complicate family life and long-term stability.
Awune’s position ultimately calls for balance, recognizing both the value of marriage and the realities that come with it.
“Marriage is good, but it is not cheap. Plan your life before you enter it,” he concluded.
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